HELLO 1E5!
:D

I am shaofen. haha (:

today I am going to talk about smth similar to what Shijia has mentioned before - class bonding.
no, actually I'm not really gonna talk about what bonding stuff.
I'm gonna talk about acceptance. (this is the part where drums roll)
no, acually I'm not really gonna talk about acceptance because I dunno how to accept everything and everyone yet so anyway it's just something... oh never mind.
you know Shijia said "DON'T TAKE ANYTHING TO HEART(: "
but I say please take everything to heart(:

if you think I'm crapping then goodbye, see you in school :D
heh heh.

recently, I notice quite a few relationship (by relationship i mean all matters in 1E5 which have to do with people relating to people) problems and I'm sure many of us are sort of embroiled in such matters.

you know that at this teen age we are lyk all undergoing major changes - physically, emotionally and mentally.
the physically part is not funny, you pervert.

so being the ignorant juveniles we now are (don't even try to deny it because this is true), we are easily influenced by so many, many things around us lyk the media, our environment, our peers, etc.
yes, yes, can't help being influenced.
but you know that actually this all boils down to your principles and moral values.
if Mr Liu actually flashed across your mind, Mdm Sathiya is very disappointed in you.

what are your principles?
what are your moral values?

we've been taught from young that lying is wrong.
we've been taught from young that stealing is wrong.
we've been taught from young that smoking is wrong.
we've been taught from young that taking drugs is wrong.
we've been taught from young that betrayal is wrong.
we've been taught from young that so many things are wrong.
but we still do it.

why why why why why?
is it something wrong with our principles and moral values?
often yes, sometimes no.
afterall, straying is not as hard as self-discipline.
(um, you can imagine mas selamat used to be an innocent little baby angel so why now he wanna bomb people?!)

maybe if we stuck by our principles and moral values without wavering, many problems could have been avoided but right now we're changing, and our values are changing along with us.
sometimes amidst everything you lose yourself, but that's okay as long as you realize it and find yourself again.

well, I think this is the root problem of all these relationship obstacles - change.

I call these problems relationship obstacles because it's something you have to get past to maintain your relationship, if not you're not really sincere about this relationship.
yes, some of you may argue that you are really trying to work out and pass through the obstacle, but it takes two hands to clap.
it's not your fault if the other party doesn't seem to be making any effort.
it's her/his problem.

so since everyone is changing (I'm sure you notice some changes in your friends, or maybe you're not observant enough, or maybe you're the one changing your friends), I say rather than try to change them back to what they used to be, why not just accept them?
it's not easy because it's an emotional obstacle you have to overcome, but these people who have changed are the people you've most probably spent practically the whole year with.
you must have developed some feelings for these people and believe it or not, that feeling is love.

yes, I'm back to the 'love forgives and accepts and perseveres' thingy but it's true.
really!

if you love someone, forgive that person's mistakes.
if you love someone, accept that person's flaws (and if it doesn't hurt try to help them change for the better :D).
if you love someone, persevere in your relationship with this person because everything, everybody and every part of your life is special and one of a kind.
at least when all things fail, you know you've tried and that's good enough.
once it's gone, it's gone.
but who cares when it's gone cuz you still have memories (:

check out quote of the week.
'...keeping together is success', people!

so can you people please accept your friends for who and what they are?
because you're changing too and you also want to be accepted.

okay I know this may be annoying to some of you but this is what I think and whether or not you agree with me, I don't care.
I just hope this serves as a source of comfort for those who don't know what to do.

ya, I am act-smart.
so what? I lyk it(:
bleah :p

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